Some red flag alerts that you may be in a lousy relationship… When they have a completely different public image from their private image. In private, they lack empathy. They have explosive anger and are controlling, gaslighting, manipulative, violent, arrogant, and can’t handle any criticism. You are never good enough. You will give everything to a relationship, and they will take everything from you. You will feel depleted emotionally, spiritually, and physically. You may even become bankrupt after giving everything financially to the relationship.
That is what a bad relationship looks like, but at the beginning, It looks like a perfect relationship. So give yourself a break and some grace. Now that you know, you can do something about it.